Fill out the response
You'll need:
- Written Response to Application (Form 19)
- Affidavit — General (Form 45) (optional)
- download PDF forms from the links above and fill them out on your computer,
- print the PDF forms and fill them out in pen, or
- ask for printed forms at your local Family Court registry.
Tips for filling out the response:
- Read the other party's application and any documents attached to the application very carefully again.
- Fill out as many sections of the response as apply to you.
- The more information you put in, the better.
- If Form 19 doesn't have enough space for the information you need to share, fill out the affidavit (Form 45). See How do you write an affidavit? and What to include in an affidavit or bring to court.
If you fill out an affidavit, you must swear or affirm that the information in it and any supporting documents is true. You can do this at the court registry for free when you go to file your forms.
What if I don't respond?
You can still go to court without having filled out the forms. But be prepared to do the following in person in court:
- Respond to what the other person's asking for.
- Tell your side of the story.
- Have an idea of what orders you'd like the court to make, and give evidence (talk) about why the court should make those orders.
Write notes beforehand so you don't forget anything.
If you plan to do this instead of filling out a response (Form 19), go straight to Step 5.
Whatever you decide, don't miss the court date that's on the application. If you can't make it that day, contact the court registry to adjourn (delay) the case to another date. If you don't show up, the judge can make an order without hearing your side of things. You'll have no input into the decision.
It's normal to feel uncertain, but you can do this. Take a break if you need to.